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  Stories of an Affair Last Post Topics Posts
Describe your affair Describe your affair
Share your experience and show examples of how a good (or bad) affair proceeded. How did you meet? What worked and what didn't? Let us all live your life vicariously. These real-life stories don't need to have erotic detail unless you wish to share.

Last Post 08/18/10 at 16:21:28
In: Re: My New Affair
By: Dick
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Confessional Confessional
You've successfully hidden your affair, but you need to tell someone! We offer no penance here, just willing readers that want to hear your tales. Let it all out as you are among friends.

Last Post 06/12/10 at 17:06:34
In: Re: the truth hurts.
By: Crazy Love
9 32
Happily Ever After Happily Ever After
We all love happy endings and rarely get this perspective on affairs. Do you have a tale to tell when everything works out just right? Share the love and hope.

Last Post 06/08/10 at 15:30:37
In: Re: When do you go for yo...
By: Dick
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  Perspectives of an Affair Last Post Topics Posts
Reasons for Infidelity Reasons for Infidelity
There are as many triggers and reasons for an affair as there are couples that engage in them. Share them here and help people learn from your experience.

Last Post 07/31/10 at 10:39:47
In: Re: Poll - Why did your a...
By: DTTFSA
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Ethical Considerations Ethical Considerations
Discussion of the moral and ethical dilemmas surrounding affairs and adultery.
Note that general rants against infidelity aren't welcome as the audience for the site isn't generally receptive to such black and white definitions.

Last Post 04/02/10 at 20:36:49
In: Re: Should love be limite...
By: Dick
5 25
Effects on Children Effects on Children
How does your affair affect the children in your lives? Whether discovered or not, affairs will change the way you see the world. Exposure and the threat of divorce can be impactful. Discuss here.

Last Post 05/03/10 at 04:33:02
In: Re: How old before kids c...
By: smile2010
2 8
Getting Beyond Guilt Getting Beyond Guilt
Your affair is not about intentionally hurting others. Good people have affairs.

Last Post 04/28/09 at 14:12:10
In: Re: Holding it all in
By: Red
3 8

  Starting an Affair Last Post Topics Posts
Making the Decision Making the Decision
What do you need to take into account before embarking on your affair? Pros and Cons?

Last Post 04/28/09 at 15:33:35
In: Re: Affairs are expensive...
By: Dick
2 4
Planning and Preparation Planning and Preparation
How to organize your life to welcome an affair. Preparing for the changes required.

Last Post 12/09/09 at 14:10:18
In: Re: Meeting the Wife....
By: Dick
2 5
Beginning your Affair Beginning your Affair
Starting an affair is exciting. How to find the right person and manage your courtship.

Last Post 04/02/10 at 20:41:55
In: Re: Online sources to fin...
By: Dick
2 12
Setting the Rules Setting the Rules
In order to be successful, every affair has rules. When can you call? Where can you meet? What shouldn't you say?

Last Post 03/10/09 at 20:09:29
In: Numeric codes for text me...
By: Dick
1 1

  Living the Affair Last Post Topics Posts
Activities to Enjoy Activities to Enjoy
Most affairs have passionate sex. But what other activites can a special couple enjoy safely? Where are the especially romantic (and tolerant) places? Favorite ways to tell your partner you love them?

Last Post 04/02/10 at 20:45:18
In: Re: Favorite gifts for yo...
By: Dick
5 18
Places to Play Places to Play
Discretion is key and hotels are the obvious, but not always economical choice. Discuss your favorite meeting spots and tips for making time for each other.

Last Post 06/08/10 at 15:35:35
In: Re: Public parks
By: Dick
4 14
Managing the Family Balance Managing the Family Balance
Keeping your two worlds apart, and tending to both, can be difficult.

Last Post 05/10/10 at 15:25:18
In: Re: Apart from Lover...Wi...
By: Dick
3 10
Maintaining Privacy Maintaining Privacy
Discretion is the key to any affair being kept under wraps.

Last Post 12/09/09 at 14:00:00
In: Re: Mobile phone records
By: Dick
10 21
Avoiding Physical Evidence Avoiding Physical Evidence
Dealing with the compexities of cards and gifts, avoiding stray hairs, and reducing signs of the affair.

Last Post 12/09/09 at 14:25:15
In: GPS Tracking
By: Dick
7 9
Body Language Body Language
Avoiding behavior that tips off your spouse. What cues give you away? What "mental evidence" are you leaving behind?

Last Post 08/12/10 at 01:36:35
In: Re: If you're a great lia...
By: Alexandria
6 10
Tips and Tricks Tips and Tricks
Members offering tips and tricks to managing the affair. Share best practices here and help each other avoid problems that you have resolved.

Last Post 09/08/09 at 03:51:42
In: Re: Propaganda
By: JustJohn
12 18

  Ending an Affair Last Post Topics Posts
Handling Discovery Handling Discovery
Have you been found out? How to get through the drama and prepare yourself for being exposed.

Last Post 11/09/09 at 16:03:45
In: Re: New to group and alre...
By: sadverysad
4 24
When it's Run the Course When it's Run the Course
Has the luster run out? Has the excitement dulled? What happens when the affair isn't what it used to be?

Last Post 03/28/09 at 16:10:45
In: Re: Ending gracefully
By: Red
1 2
Issues Surrounding Divorce Issues Surrounding Divorce
The dreaded "D" word. Lawyers, money, and the complications around custody, dignity, and moving on.

Last Post 05/14/10 at 17:36:42
In: Resources to help make th...
By: Dick
4 11

  Ask Dick and Jane Last Post Topics Posts
Questions asked of Dick Questions asked of Dick
Dick's responses to "Ask Dick and Jane"
Moderator: Dick
Last Post 08/18/10 at 16:18:33
In: Re: Spouse finding out
By: Dick
2 7
Questions asked of Jane Questions asked of Jane
Jane's responses to "Ask Dick and Jane"
Moderator: Jane
Last Post 03/17/10 at 20:40:14
In: Re: Abusive and suicidal ...
By: Jane
1 2
Questions asked of Dick and Jane Questions asked of Dick and Jane
Dick and Jane respond to "Ask Dick and Jane"
Moderators: Dick, Jane
Last Post 09/09/09 at 20:34:14
In: Re: Lost
By: Dick
3 8

  General Category Last Post Topics Posts
Website Suggestions Website Suggestions
Please use this board to suggest improvements or features for the Our Secret Affair website.
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Last Post 10/13/09 at 04:41:04
In: Re: Call for ideas to inc...
By: Red
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General Discussions General Discussions
This is the board for discussion of general topics not covered in other sections. Use it for topics that aren't related to extramarital affairs. No solicitations or advertising permitted.
Moderator: Forum Administrator
Last Post 07/31/10 at 14:45:50
In: Re: How did you find the ...
By: DTTFSA
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