Ok, guys this should be interesting.  I am meeting with my lover and his wife tomorrow afternoon, as clients.  I have spotted her in the grocery store weeks ago, but never a face to face encounter.  Of course, she has no clue about us.  Although she has inquired about who I was in the past.  I quit wearing perfume when me and my lover met after that.  That is one of the best tips I could give to any woman, NO PERFUME when meeting your man. Now I have to think when I am around them to not wear any.  She doesn't wear it and I wouldn't want her to put 2 and 2 together, if she recognized the scent.  It will be nerve racking for me to act as casual as possible and hard to act like I haven't seen him in 20 years, when I just saw him yesterday.  I have really got to work on my poker face....Wish me luck

OK, things went pretty well today with the wife and my lover.  She is nice enough and doesn't suspect a thing.  We could actually hang out(the wife and I).  How weird is that? Although, integrating our lives would make some things easier.  Its definitely something that I want to consider making happen.  Me and OM have decided that we want to be in each others lives, even if we are never able to be together as a couple(in the outside world).  
And to answer your question, the wife has asked who I was on one occasion and asked him when he saw me last on a seperate occasion.  She knows we went to high school together and now they are my clients, so all is basically explained.  Hopefully, no suspicions on her part.  I was very nervous, though.  I was shaking holding paperwork for them.  Luckily, we were outside and the wind was blowing.  Kudos to Dick and Jane for pulling this off for such a long period of time!